One More Thought/Question on Communication
I forgot to mention one important thing yesterday -
Tsjaz indicated that he finds it boring to be introverted. This surprised me. I tend to think that introverts have this fascinating inner world that entertains them beyond what current conversation has to offer. I also imagine that they notice and remember everything. (My other brother-in-law is exceptionally good at that. While it seems like he could not care less about anything going on, days later he might repeat a conversation you had verbatim and you never realized he was listening.) But I can see that the flip side might just be that the mind is blank or stalled by social awkwardness or something like that. I worked with a quiet fellow many years ago and he told me that his thoughts were very simple and consisted of things like "apple" or "BEER."
I would also assume that a super talker finds themselves fascinating and can't wait to hear the next thing out of their mouth. However, I suspect that a lot of them are also extremely insecure and talk in an effort to constantly prove themselves in some way.
Tsjaz indicated that he finds it boring to be introverted. This surprised me. I tend to think that introverts have this fascinating inner world that entertains them beyond what current conversation has to offer. I also imagine that they notice and remember everything. (My other brother-in-law is exceptionally good at that. While it seems like he could not care less about anything going on, days later he might repeat a conversation you had verbatim and you never realized he was listening.) But I can see that the flip side might just be that the mind is blank or stalled by social awkwardness or something like that. I worked with a quiet fellow many years ago and he told me that his thoughts were very simple and consisted of things like "apple" or "BEER."
I would also assume that a super talker finds themselves fascinating and can't wait to hear the next thing out of their mouth. However, I suspect that a lot of them are also extremely insecure and talk in an effort to constantly prove themselves in some way.

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